Whitechocolatte, 61

white california female looking for black male I am an attractive, honest, hardworking, independent, intelligent, low maintenance woman. Those are just a few adjectives to describe myself, I will let you have fun adding more to my list. I try to enjoy each day being happy and fulfilled because life can be so short. I do not play any sports but do enjoy watching them on TV or live. Would love to see a live basketball game sometime. The simple things in life make me happy like the park, beach, picnics, watching a sunset or taking a long walk or drive. I also enjoy staying at home watching movies, laughing, playing games (please don't mistake games for drama, I have very little and yes everyone has some whether they know it or not). I have an 8 year old daughter (Interracial) who is very important to me who I am raising on my own. I am not looking for a daddy for her because she already has one. When it comes to my happiness I am able to separate parenting because I have needs and wants and I know my responsibilities as a parent are being taken care of. I live my life as much as possible according to my maker and God is and always will be first in my life. I am looking for a hard working, loyal, intelligent, well mannered and maintained, romantic, conversationalist, God loving, REAL BLACK MAN. Any other qualities I consider a bonus. I have a zero tolerance for drugs of any kind and if you still have the itch for the clubs and the ladies that go along with it, I am not your woman. I do like to have a drink now and then and that's cool. I am an individual who believes honesty is the best policy. Nobody is perfect and if you trust in the person you are with you take the good with the bad and ANYTHING can be worked out, so please be honest. I like a man who knows how to treat a lady without needing instructions. I am not much into material things, don't get me wrong surprises are nice but I love the affection, laughter, romance, things that come from the heart.